One of man’s greatest desires is to find the right person to love and have loving sex with. We all want to start a family and raise our children in the healthiest and most loving way possible. For many, this is the greatest purpose in life.
We are biologically programmed to look for and find the most compatible partner in order to create a relationship full of love and happiness. Love is the strongest feeling of a human being. Without love we cannot develop in a healthy and harmonious way. People who are raised without love end up developing many physical, mental and emotional problems, and create many toxic relationships in their lives that lack love and connection.
We live in a traumatized society full of problems, conflicts and toxicity, where most people develop all kinds of problems in their relationships. Few are those who manage to create loving, stable and long-lasting relationships that have a continuous evolution. They are always involved in their relationship and always looking to improve it. They always use any conflict, obstacle or challenge in their relationship as a new opportunity to know themselves better, to know their partner better and to know their relationship better.
There is no perfect relationship where there are no conflicts or various types of situations that cause discomfort in the relationship. Most of them do not know how to deal with these situations and end up being affected by them and end up drifting away from each other. Many people repress many negative thoughts and feelings for fear of upsetting their partner. They do not realize that these repressed thoughts and emotions end up creating and increasing a distance between the two partners. If this situation is not resolved, the couple has a high chance of breaking up.
Conscious couples know how important honest communication is and how destructive is the lack of it. An honest and fluid communication from both partners is the basic pillar of the relationship. In this way, they manage to really get to know each other and leave no room for distance to appear between them. Free and honest communication gives them the opportunity to cultivate trust and respect for the relationship.
In my opinion, the biggest problem in society is the lack of education. We suffer on all levels because of this, not only on the relational one. We have no educational guidance regarding relationships as a couple and we have to figure out for ourselves how to build a stable, harmonious, happy and loving relationship. Most of us do not succeed in this and end up going through a lot of suffering in love.
Another big problem that affects couples in society is the lack of education towards one’s own person. Most of us get into relationships without really knowing himself. In the beginning, the attraction between the partners is superficial and does not end up becoming deeper because in reality they are not really compatible. Many end up seeing after a few years of relationship that they actually don’t have much in common and either stay together because of comfort, children or the gossip of people, or end up breaking up.
Another major issue that can cause a couple to break up is sexuality. Sexuality is a major component of love and is an important biological human need. We are all genetically programmed to express ourselves sexually and reproduce to perpetuate the species. Nature wanted to ensure that reproduction would take place and for this she endowed man with the greatest pleasure in sexuality.
Sexuality offers the densest and most powerful energy of man. Orgasmic energy is by far the most desired and pleasurable human experience. We all want to enjoy our orgasmic energy with our loved one. One of the most special and charged human experiences is the sexual orgasmic ecstasy that occurs between two people who really love each other.
We all want to enjoy our sexuality to the fullest, but unfortunately most of us end up suffering a lot because of our sexuality and some couples even end up breaking up because of it. We do not have a healthy education in sexuality and from a young age we integrate some bad sexual habits that end up affecting us a lot when we are adults. Pornography is the only collective education that gives us a very wrong perception of what it means to be sexual.
Porn is mostly the cause of major men’s problems. These are premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety and disconnection from your own body and your partner. Premature ejaculation is unwanted ejaculation that occurs very quickly, leaving the woman unsatisfied. Erectile dysfunction is a man’s inability to get an erection or maintain an erection as long as desired. Sexual performance anxiety is the fear of failure when it comes to sex. After the first unpleasant sexual experiences in which you either ejaculate quickly or do not sustain the erection well, you will develop a fear of sexual failure.
Many men come to believe that ejaculation is everything in sexuality and focus only on it. In this way, they end up not being aware of the strong emotional and spiritual bond that manifests between the two partners. They always end up losing their seed which contains the best energy in them, and, in this way, they end the sexual act quickly and remain exhausted. They remain attentive only to the physical sensations in the sexual organ and no longer manage to feel the rest of their body or what their partner really feels.
This kind of sex is primitive, superficial and short. This primitive sex brings some pleasure, but it is of very little intensity compared to the man’s true potential for pleasure. More important is the fact that through frequent ejaculation, the man seriously affects his health, mental concentration and mood. The woman does not have time to enjoy her sexuality too much because the intercourse lasts too little. Female sexual biology takes much longer than male sexual biology to really kick in.
Couples who practice this kind of sex are usually sexually dissatisfied couples. In this kind of sexuality, little or no attention is paid to foreplay and intimacy. These two connecting experiences are essential, and without them, sex is a fluke, it’s not the real high-quality one.
Couples who pay a lot of attention to intimacy and conscious foreplay, where men know exactly what they are doing and have a loving intention, will be able to access states of sexual and orgasmic ecstasy that encompass the whole body, not just the sexual organs.
The Eastern spiritual traditions of China (Tao) and India (Tantra) are rich sources of sexual and intimacy practices that succeed in elevating the couple to the highest possible heights of love and sexuality. These practices have been cultivated and developed for thousands of years and come from divine sources of information and education.
Couples who become aware of their true potential to love and make love will be able to explore each other more and more as time goes by and thus feel more love and passion between them. They will have very little chance of breaking up, as usually happens in ordinary couples in society.
I hope that anyone who reads this article will feel the desire to study how they can know themselves better when it comes to Love and Sexuality. I want more and more open and curious people to appear who want to create loving relationships full of prolonged orgasmic sexual ecstasy.
I hope you will also be part of these conscious and loving couples.
Namaste
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