DAOIST SEXUALITY

Daoism is an ancient spiritual philosophy originating in China. Among many teachings dedicated to human development and evolution, Daoism also has a section dedicated to sexuality. Daoism has many techniques and practices that help cultivate a healthy sexuality. Daoists were ancient Chinese physicians and viewed sexuality as a fundamental approach to creating health in the body. They saw sexuality as something fundamental to the human experience and wanted to understand and cultivate it in the healthiest way.

In order to endlessly amplify the amorous availability of those who love each other, precise methods of mastering the sexual energy through what is called sexual continence have been developed. It mainly involves the retention of sperm in the man’s body, without being eliminated through ejaculations or nocturnal pollution. In women, continence refers to the lack of specific explosive discharges during orgasm and the reduction of menstrual secretions.

Daoists realized that sexual energy represents the divine and creative energy within the human being. This is the highest form of energy available to the human being. They learned how to cultivate this sexual energy to create a much healthier, happier, more fulfilled, more creative and longer life.

Both men and women need to learn some basics about their sexuality and then start practicing some techniques specific to their sexuality to awaken, develop and cultivate their sexual energy. In this way, they are able to use their sexual energy to fuel their life energy and create a much more fulfilling life.

The most important thing to learn is how sexual energy ascends in the head and then descends to the navel. Daoism teaches us how the human body is composed of energy and how this energy circulates through certain energy channels in the body. These energy channels are also called meridians. They teach us that the main energy channel in the body is the microcosmic orbit which is made up of the anterior channel and the posterior channel. In order to be able to enjoy the healing and beneficial effect of sexual energy, we must learn and practice how to ascend the sexual energy in the body through the spine and take it to the head and then down to the navel, where it will be stored and transformed into vital energy.

Energy rises in the head through the posterior channel and descends through the anterior channel. Through this rise and fall of sexual energy, the body has the opportunity to charge itself with this pleasant and much-desired energy. Sexual energy is the most pleasant and desired energy by the human being.

Raising and lowering the energy is done in the following way:

1) when we are very excited, we will stop and begin to squeeze from the genitals and anus and inhale deeply through the nose. At the same time, we will focus on taking the over-exciting energy from the sexual organ and bringing it up the spine to the head.

2) then we exhale, but at the same time, we hold tightly to the sexual organs and anus and continue to focus on raising the sexual energy in the head.

3) we will continue to inhale and exhale and hold tightly to the sexual organs and anus, as long as it takes, until we feel that the arousal has dropped to a stable level, and we no longer have the sensation of explosion.

4) when we feel that we have accumulated enough energy in the head, we will begin to lower the energy from the head to the navel by raising the tip of the tongue to the roof of the mouth. By joining the tip of the tongue with the roof of the mouth, we will close the circuit of the microcosmic orbit and with the help of our intention and breath, we will focus on gently lowering the energy from the head. We bring it down through the face, then through the neck, then through the chest, then through the solar plexus and then we store it in the navel area.

Through this practice, the man can learn how to separate orgasm from ejaculation and in this way, he can enjoy multiple orgasms in the same sexual act, without ejaculating. In this way, he will no longer lose his vital sperm resources and instead will be able to charge himself with a lot of sexual energy. This way, he can extend his intercourse as long as he wants and enjoy fulfilling sexual energy instead of feeling drained after ejaculation.

Through this practice, the woman can learn how to become multi-orgasmic and how to experience orgasms in the brain and throughout the body. She will succeed in becoming much more aware of her sexual and orgasmic potential by the fact that she, through this practice, accesses a much higher and deeper sexual energy.

This practice, of learning how to circulate sexual energy throughout the body, brings many benefits to the person. He will enjoy more health, happiness, fulfilment, sexual confidence, sexual pleasure and longevity.

A couple, who manages to integrate this practice into their sexual life, will succeed in opening a new sexual and emotional dimension in their relationship. All negative emotions between them will be reduced and all positive emotions between them will be increased. They will manage, through Daoist sexual practice, to harmonize more and more and create a state of unity between them.

When two partners perform the Raising of Sexual Energy in the body, a very deep connection is made between the two of them, where they will be able to exchange sexual energy. The man will draw feminine energy from the yoni through his lingam and ascend it through the spine to the head. The woman will draw masculine energy from the lingam through the yoni and raise it up the spine to the head. Then the sexual energy from the head will be lowered into the basin. From the man’s head, the energy will go to his tongue, and, through the kiss, it will pass to the woman’s tongue and descend into the woman’s pelvis, from where it will be pulled by the man into his body. From the woman’s head, the energy will go to her tongue, and, through the kiss, it will pass to the man’s tongue and go down into the man’s basin, from where it will be drawn back by the woman into her body. In this way, two different circuits are created that have both partners involved in each of them. These two circuits will attract/bind the partners like two magnets, and eventually they will turn into only one magnet.

In Daoism, man is likened to fire and woman is likened to water. This is due to the different way men and women get excited. As the fire is quickly ignited, so it can be quickly extinguished, so also the man, he gets excited very quickly and finishes quickly. Woman, like water, takes more time to warm up and then become hot, but once heated, she will stay hot for a very long time. The man must learn to control his fire, long enough to warm and please the woman.

Normally, because we don’t have healthy sex education in society, the man ends up ejaculating quickly before the woman is satisfied. This can be remedied by adopting Daoist teachings in normal sexuality.

Men need to understand that ejaculation is different from orgasm and that we can enjoy the pleasures of orgasm without going through the disappointing ending of ejaculation. In this way, we can prolong the sexual act as long as we want until we feel that the partner is satisfied.

The man can also learn various penetration techniques. Typically, only forward and backward deep penetration is performed, which is primitive procreative penetration. This penetration quickly leads to a rapid ejaculation and provides only a kind of internal stimulation of the vagina. When you manage to perform several types of penetrations in several angles and depths, you will be able to provide various stimulations to the vagina, which will create much more intense pleasure.

Also, in Daoism there is a great emphasis on foreplay, and it gives the man the necessary teaching to be able to heat up the woman as much as possible before penetration.

In order to increase her sexual experience and potential, the woman can learn two more essential practices. First, she can learn how to do some vaginal exercises using jade stone eggs, and in this way, she will stimulate the growth of her vaginal walls. In this way, the vagina will become more sensitive, more flexible and stronger. Then she can learn the meditative practice of raising the energy from the ovaries up the spine into the head and then down into the navel. In this way, she will draw the energy from the ovaries and feed it to the body and thus reduce menstruation, and eventually be able to stop it. In this way, she enjoys more youth, creativity and life force.